tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post111755063797285528..comments2023-10-20T04:57:35.975-07:00Comments on Daily Views, Pop Culture, Rants and News: The one that got away...The Humanity Critichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17952770577150500798noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-45235214179152526842009-03-27T18:42:00.000-07:002009-03-27T18:42:00.000-07:00We all make stupid mistakes. At least you're man e...We all make stupid mistakes. At least you're man enough to admit you did. I have a really, really awful ex who just treated me like I was nothing and now he's got my friends (cause some of them are mutual) fishing for information about me. Because he's trying to get back in my life. Anyway, he told me that I was "lucky to know him". <BR/><BR/>I've missed opportunities (he definitely wasn't one). I can appreciate someone who's honest.<BR/><BR/>Let that honesty help you out.<BR/><BR/>At least Sam didn't say she hopes you die alone. ;)<BR/><BR/>Just give it to God and work on being different. And it will be :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-6397557018376001692007-09-24T22:15:00.000-07:002007-09-24T22:15:00.000-07:00"The monster's looseYou're luckier than you knowTh..."The monster's loose<BR/>You're luckier than you know<BR/>The one got away...<BR/>He's gone, she's gone."Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05811788901748437607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117722607784894032005-06-02T07:30:00.000-07:002005-06-02T07:30:00.000-07:00I wanted to write a song about situations like thi...I wanted to write a song about situations like this. "We leave the ones the love and love the ones that leave."Amadeohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07824458171389497321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117712643717285062005-06-02T04:44:00.000-07:002005-06-02T04:44:00.000-07:00Wow Bro, All I can say is it's one to grow on, eve...Wow Bro, <BR/>All I can say is it's one to grow on, everyday we get to get up and try it one more time and hopefully get a little better at it. <BR/> <BR/>It's 7:45am here in Jersey when are you gonna get started?<BR/><BR/>Hit me on the blog!The Foxybrown Showhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05625104739852646024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117669409248432152005-06-01T16:43:00.000-07:002005-06-01T16:43:00.000-07:00Men are not the only ones who have a list of the "...Men are not the only ones who have a list of the "the one that got away". You guys are lucky enough to get sympathy, women who let the good man get away are labeled so horribly. Being stupid is one of the milder descriptions. In any event, I know your anguish.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117634002243807522005-06-01T06:53:00.000-07:002005-06-01T06:53:00.000-07:00once again, dope post. its okay to face failure an...once again, dope post. <BR/><BR/>its okay to face failure and fear.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13205384167481897308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117613729234683742005-06-01T01:15:00.000-07:002005-06-01T01:15:00.000-07:00I used to be the same way, as you described at the...I used to be the same way, as you described at the end. It's part of the reason why I always ended up with losers for a very, very long time. Those guys were easy to get, and easy to keep because they never expected much. I'm at the point now where I'm with someone that makes me want to be a better wo-man and shit is hard. In the beginning I tried to break up with him a lot just so I can go back to the easy superficial relationships. So it's nothing like BAM someone is going to knock you on your ass and you open up like flood gates but someone who takes the time to get to know the real you. And this. Is turning into it's own post. ;) Loved the stories, HC.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05149586586015959516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117586021886029182005-05-31T17:33:00.000-07:002005-05-31T17:33:00.000-07:00You tell it straight. I like it.You tell it straight. I like it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117581752649141582005-05-31T16:22:00.000-07:002005-05-31T16:22:00.000-07:00Since you are sharing… I'm just wondering (out lou...Since you are sharing… I'm just wondering (out loud) why you think some people are better off without you? Is this the reason you appear to lose interest in the women you've dated after a brief period?Cynthiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01515523400127073358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117578232802669472005-05-31T15:23:00.000-07:002005-05-31T15:23:00.000-07:00Wow. The "real" you? We're all afraid to be honest...Wow. The "real" you? We're all afraid to be honest about who we are for fear that the "public" will reject us.<BR/><BR/>I think that's the great thing about blogging. I can just be me. And I sometimes go overboard doing that, revealing all of my odd ways and craziness and daring people to dislike me (maybe urging them) to prove to myself that I am really unlikeable underneath it all. Yep, that's a self esteem issue right there.<BR/><BR/>But no one dislikes me, even the "real" me, well, except my baby daddy. Everyone else accepts me as I am and I am gratedul for that. Now it's time to accept myself.editorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07516952343346031066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117569937111316102005-05-31T13:05:00.000-07:002005-05-31T13:05:00.000-07:00I have to say, this was a post that truly reflecte...I have to say, this was a post that truly reflected your "humanity".<BR/><BR/>you're being man enough to admit that you let a few get away is a beautiful thing. it doesnt make you any less of a man, in fact, it reflects the true manhood you embody.<BR/><BR/>I felt the words you wrote and I know I personally appreciate having something like to read.MBT4679https://www.blogger.com/profile/08564651725065075391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117568229347378922005-05-31T12:37:00.000-07:002005-05-31T12:37:00.000-07:00Hey HC. I'm laughing at the previous comment. I ac...Hey HC. I'm laughing at the previous comment. I actually think its a good idea. As for the One(s) that got away, I think alot of us have had experiences where we look back and say, man, I should've done that differently. I've been fortunate to have been called the "one" that got away. <BR/><BR/>But, I have a friend who I was in love with years ago and who returned the same love just as much. But she was a Jehovah's witness and I was worldly which is a no-no. She was facing what they called disfellowship. A sort of ex-communication type thing from the Kingdom if we continued our forbidden involvement. <BR/><BR/>I told her, I cared for her alot, but I couldn't allow her to go through that embarrassment. It was hard, but I don't regret what I did. Only regretting that I didn't listen to her speak out about the situation as well. Pretty much like Sara attempted to do it with you. <BR/><BR/>I think what you did though was noble. And at times you find out, you live and you learn a little something about you that you didn't know before. When it comes to love, I'll be a pussy everytime dawg.Luke Cagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13129670058219925738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117564535518703762005-05-31T11:35:00.000-07:002005-05-31T11:35:00.000-07:00I know you can't do this, but you need to have a P...I know you can't do this, but you need to have a PPP (Panties Per Post) index link imbedded somewhere so we can see how much poontang you get each time you post something like this. I am serious about this. Virtuoso!!!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117563973781113842005-05-31T11:26:00.000-07:002005-05-31T11:26:00.000-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07664879185687579509noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117563940199061162005-05-31T11:25:00.000-07:002005-05-31T11:25:00.000-07:00Amazing, amazing reflection on self. I think this ...Amazing, amazing reflection on self. I think this is the kind of conversation many guys have in their head...never to be shared with anyone. <BR/><BR/>For you to post your thoughts in an open forum with such depth and honestly reveals just how much character and heart you have. Each one of those relationships, I bet, taught you things about you, and the world outside of you. Thanks for sharing this. it's rare for people to be so honest. **RPM**Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07664879185687579509noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117563498204315062005-05-31T11:18:00.000-07:002005-05-31T11:18:00.000-07:00If you think highly of yourself, not just act it b...If you think highly of yourself, not just act it but truely believe it, then the rest will fall into place. You can't please everyone, and people make mistakes. You always have at least 2 choices in life, you may not like them, but they're yours. When it comes to relationships, you can either learn from your blunders and do better, or not. I'm quite the relationship sabatoger myself. If there were rewards for this kind of thing . . . . <BR/><BR/>But anyway, nothing worth having is ever easily obtained.*LadieFire*https://www.blogger.com/profile/15709764807431207295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117562589441760852005-05-31T11:03:00.000-07:002005-05-31T11:03:00.000-07:00I think when Sam said 'you'll find someone some da...I think when Sam said 'you'll find someone some day' she was busting on you. I think she meant 'Too bad, loser.' Honestly. I doubt it was a good thing.peachyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01451794141597730747noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117562433133757952005-05-31T11:00:00.000-07:002005-05-31T11:00:00.000-07:00Wow. This is a really good post. Having someone ...Wow. This is a really good post. Having someone get to know the real you is a very scary thing. But when you are excited to have someone get to know the real you, well, then you've found The One. And that you'll "find someone one day" comment... I get that all the time too. It can get annoying even when people mean the best, especially when they add "There are still plenty of good men out there."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117557750255150782005-05-31T09:42:00.000-07:002005-05-31T09:42:00.000-07:00you shouldnt be so hard on yourself though guy. yo...you shouldnt be so hard on yourself though guy. you cant think that certain folks are better off without you.Jdidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08493622796742761799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117556482279504332005-05-31T09:21:00.000-07:002005-05-31T09:21:00.000-07:00I think we all have those "If I woulda, coulda, sh...I think we all have those "If I woulda, coulda, shoulda.." moments in regards to past relationships. It's funny, cause I'm someone's Samantha as we speak. He's been trying to turn back the hands of time if it were to try to get back with me, and it's just not happening. It's like you wondered why they couldn't have been man enough to change from the get go. I understand what you've gone through.Nikkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08664837514508324339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1117556393418294742005-05-31T09:19:00.000-07:002005-05-31T09:19:00.000-07:00I ABSOLUTELY love this post. You got real heart an...I ABSOLUTELY love this post. You got real heart and are man enough to admit you got feelings enough to cry over a woman. Just reading that Sara was blind... was enough to let me know your a different type of person, cuz that alone would have made folk run away. Im feeling thatAnanse's Webhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05802154611522243872noreply@blogger.com