tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post112714440202296528..comments2023-10-20T04:57:35.975-07:00Comments on Daily Views, Pop Culture, Rants and News: Heartbreak HotelThe Humanity Critichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17952770577150500798noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127492609813530152005-09-23T09:23:00.000-07:002005-09-23T09:23:00.000-07:00Stella sounded like she was a great lady. I was st...Stella sounded like she was a great lady. I was stunned to read how her life ended. There's a special hell for those murders. Vengence is mine sayeth the Lord.<BR/><BR/>In some ways your dad sounds similar to mine. It says alot that you were able to rise above what he pulled in the hospital room with your family there.Starla Spauldinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06963564242359350339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127320897650162932005-09-21T09:41:00.000-07:002005-09-21T09:41:00.000-07:00That's deep about Stella, I feel your pain on that...That's deep about Stella, I feel your pain on that one. Big time.ManNMotionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06591558781977040325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127299343790662662005-09-21T03:42:00.000-07:002005-09-21T03:42:00.000-07:00damn dude. thats rough.. man, i feel you. all my l...damn dude. thats rough.. <BR/>man, i feel you. all my life i wanted my father's affection and still ain't get it. i feel you manAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13205384167481897308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127265652900505112005-09-20T18:20:00.000-07:002005-09-20T18:20:00.000-07:00you'll be a wonderful dad...thank him for teaching...you'll be a wonderful dad...<BR/>thank him for teaching you what NOt to do.<BR/>much luv to youfeels good b n FREEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05620955405907322116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127248556904515972005-09-20T13:35:00.000-07:002005-09-20T13:35:00.000-07:00Oh, baby. There's nothing I can say. Just know my ...Oh, baby. There's nothing I can say. Just know my heart is broken for you.<BR/><BR/>~sigh~introspectrehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00259342418373299237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127237114174548272005-09-20T10:25:00.000-07:002005-09-20T10:25:00.000-07:00wow! I can only hope to match your level of abili...wow! I can only hope to match your level of ability at story telling, fact or fiction, you have the gift. I am currently writing a book about my own life, which I think is truly colourful at the least and interesting at best, but I wish I had your talents as you made me feel a part of what you must have felt. I have still put off writing my feelings about my own parents' deaths...maybe your inspiration has helped.Rowanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01446435491941733971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127232876983475292005-09-20T09:14:00.000-07:002005-09-20T09:14:00.000-07:00Those two stories were so sad. I kinda wish I hadn...Those two stories were so sad. I kinda wish I hadn't read the first one because the thought of someone being that inhumane breaks my heart too.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry for your heartbreaks.<BR/><BR/>*Big Hug*Jomamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08527200233432437964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127229330364721452005-09-20T08:15:00.000-07:002005-09-20T08:15:00.000-07:00Wow HC - you know what? You are brave for sharing ...Wow HC - you know what? You are brave for sharing that, and this here is my respect to you! I will echo most of the people above in wishing you the best as you deal with those heartbreaks - oh, and an e-hug too!Guessaurushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02300211002796866032noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127227928234759912005-09-20T07:52:00.000-07:002005-09-20T07:52:00.000-07:00You dropped in on my blog & left a nice comment, s...You dropped in on my blog & left a nice comment, so I thought I'd check yours out. A mite different, eh?<BR/><BR/>Your comments about your relationship with your father are heartbreaking.<BR/><BR/>I also had problems with my father for years, although, at the end, we resolved most of them. I think one of the hardest thing for kids to do is make the distinction between crazy parents and themselves...to see the problem as "their's", not yours. If you can do that, you win--if not, you're trapped.<BR/><BR/>Just from that one post, it's clear that your father's the asshole--not you. The challenge, once you're beyond childhood, is to erase all the negative tapes he laid down. Otherwise, you're never free--all your actions are merely reactions to what tape is playing. Good luck, man!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127220208005810432005-09-20T05:43:00.000-07:002005-09-20T05:43:00.000-07:00"full blow attention whore" (smiling), i'm like t..."full blow attention whore" (smiling), i'm like the EXACT opposite.rheinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02129215854175415760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127214275217985552005-09-20T04:04:00.000-07:002005-09-20T04:04:00.000-07:00yeah. kinda like when my mom told me age 12 that s...yeah. kinda like when my mom told me age 12 that she wanted a boy.<BR/><BR/>sorry, mom. can't help you there.<BR/><BR/>but i don't even know what to tell you about Stella. what goes through people's minds when folks do crazy shit like that, i will never understand. just evil, for no reason at all.<BR/><BR/>but i knew you had a heart in there somewhere.<BR/><BR/>you'll be aight, baby, i just know it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127204234994086182005-09-20T01:17:00.000-07:002005-09-20T01:17:00.000-07:00Wow, HC. I don't even know what to say. When I sta...Wow, HC. I don't even know what to say. When I started reading I kinda knew that the Stella story wouldn't have a happy ending but I didn't know it was going to be <I>that</I> ending. My God. My heart goes out to you experiencing such profound loss. <BR/><BR/><A HREF="http://www.itslikebuttababy.com/blog.html" REL="nofollow">Butta</A>Buttahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17568757751480351417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127202228409617302005-09-20T00:43:00.000-07:002005-09-20T00:43:00.000-07:00cliche but we need to own our own record labels an...cliche but we need to own our own record labels and penetrate pop culture to the point that the generations upcoming represent themselves as one human body.<BR/>next remove religion. it is simply a means to brainwash the masses especially stupid ass white folks (the ones who even white people call stupid fucks) who dont know shit and will never know shit.<BR/>the world hasn't changed for shit since the days of alexander the great and the sick ass greeks. however before that the original man in africa had a system of trade that ranged many continents on a peaceful buzz (to a degree). now it is the age of caucaian world domination but have no fear for once we pass on and turn to dust mankind will identify more dominant races until the term 'race' is no longer recognised and difference between humans. my estimate 4000 AD minimum. see you then, peace from new zealandAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127186469799549852005-09-19T20:21:00.000-07:002005-09-19T20:21:00.000-07:00I'm always amazed at how much you are willing to s...I'm always amazed at how much you are willing to share of yourself. Great blog, that was from the heart.......Inside Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04355812934087179553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127184091398174272005-09-19T19:41:00.000-07:002005-09-19T19:41:00.000-07:00wow, I thought let me drop in for a good laugh and...wow, I thought let me drop in for a good laugh and now I'm crying, that was deep man.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127180091287141592005-09-19T18:34:00.000-07:002005-09-19T18:34:00.000-07:00I haven't been to the blog in a while, and that po...I haven't been to the blog in a while, and that post made me glad I dropped in. That shit was real, brutal, but real. I felt it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127171266694731912005-09-19T16:07:00.000-07:002005-09-19T16:07:00.000-07:00Im just tripping though.. being the product of a p...Im just tripping though.. being the product of a parent who was verbally abusive.. I vow(ed) to never speak/belittle my kids(once I have some)like I was It is possible to stop the cycle!!!msjaimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07184353959002241704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127171136885158682005-09-19T16:05:00.000-07:002005-09-19T16:05:00.000-07:00Here's a cyber hug man!!... Unfortunately I overst...Here's a cyber hug man!!... Unfortunately I overstand what u speak of when having ur heart just fucking crushed!!!Not just w/ romantic love bcuz eventually( hopefully anyway) we all get over that. I had a cousin who was murdered down in Fl LAst yr.. he would have turned 20 on 8/30.. I was a second away from flying down there & participating in the "offing" of the individuals who did this b4 they were captured... Just some heart wrenching shit!....The father thing(but w/ my momma).. I overstand that too.. but Ill save that for my own blog :).. Lets pool our resources & get some group therapy yall.. BTW.. blogging is theraputic anyway!!!msjaimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07184353959002241704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127165219108998162005-09-19T14:26:00.001-07:002005-09-19T14:26:00.001-07:00@ HC can you set your girl straight... *wink* lol@ HC can you set your girl straight... *wink* lolbrooklyn babehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08462654855844640311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127165180274845742005-09-19T14:26:00.000-07:002005-09-19T14:26:00.000-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.brooklyn babehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08462654855844640311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127164112203214512005-09-19T14:08:00.000-07:002005-09-19T14:08:00.000-07:00I hope that the men responsible for Stella's death...I hope that the men responsible for Stella's death only find peace when they are left in pieces...<BR/><BR/>I still haven't come to terms with my old man but I'm glad you can talk about... maybe one day I will too.Blessed Brillianthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10702433418015657067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127164059967770502005-09-19T14:07:00.000-07:002005-09-19T14:07:00.000-07:00HC, i know the whole laughing to prevent from cryi...HC, i know the whole laughing to prevent from crying thing. the pain actually goes even deeper when you don t release it with tears....I am so sincerely sorry to hear what happened to Stella. this is a real heartbreak. and it makes me understand that even I would become violent in such a situation<BR/>. i am all into peace and anti violence and all that stuff but as soon as it comes down to a person you love this way, you can t help it really but to feel it.<BR/><BR/>your father must have had issues himself. big issues. generosity of heart is something very fragile.........<BR/>love!<BR/>piranhaemeraldahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07938182633543909998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127162135813388572005-09-19T13:35:00.000-07:002005-09-19T13:35:00.000-07:00I want to leave my mark because your words affecte...I want to leave my mark because your words affected me, but I am speechless. If my dad did me like that I think I'd be an "asshole" too.Chelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07051155839548565903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127159113388639212005-09-19T12:45:00.000-07:002005-09-19T12:45:00.000-07:00That's some real shit. You have enough people offe...That's some real shit. You have enough people offering you hugs, so I offer my respect. Because I'm sure a lot of other men wouldn't have come out of the other end of that still having compassion and respect.Niahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07860105512770341661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1127155623492752322005-09-19T11:47:00.000-07:002005-09-19T11:47:00.000-07:00Can't think of anything to say that wouldn't be an...Can't think of anything to say that wouldn't be an understatement. Thanks for sharing.kathihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13998865477080265039noreply@blogger.com