tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post116924335879123092..comments2023-10-20T04:57:35.975-07:00Comments on Daily Views, Pop Culture, Rants and News: A Message to a friend of mine: "Sorry, guys can't be bi-sexual.."The Humanity Critichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17952770577150500798noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1171151483796914272007-02-10T15:51:00.000-08:002007-02-10T15:51:00.000-08:00As a gay man, I am appalled at the fact that I agr...As a gay man, I am appalled at the fact that I agree with everything you wrote! LOLAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1170624005725341792007-02-04T13:20:00.000-08:002007-02-04T13:20:00.000-08:00you are so right.guys can't be bi-sexualbut girls ...you are so right.<BR/><BR/>guys can't be bi-sexual<BR/>but girls can so they can have sex with a boy and a girl (sometimes even 2, 3 or 4 girls!).<BR/><BR/> Preferably at the same time.MartiniCocoahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12509335664000215080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1170022741291426852007-01-28T14:19:00.000-08:002007-01-28T14:19:00.000-08:00i believe that they can be.some people are highly ...i believe that they can be.<BR/><BR/>some people are highly sexual, to the point where they enjoy the act of sex in general, regardless if it's with a man or with a woman.<BR/><BR/>i don't find it hard to believe that just as there is a percentage of people who enjoys sex with members of the opposite sex and a percentage of people who enjoys it with members of the same sex, there can also be a percentage of people who trully enjoy it with both sexes.<BR/><BR/>some bisexual people may prefer one sex over the other, but why couldn't others like both equally?<BR/><BR/>the world is not black and white, there are PLENTY of grey areas.ohnatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14812694629923526156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1169843811549700192007-01-26T12:36:00.000-08:002007-01-26T12:36:00.000-08:00Sexuality is very complicated and illogical. There...Sexuality is very complicated and illogical. There's no black and white. I consider myself homosexual, yet one Christmas I found myself sexually aroused by a drunk female friend that was nibbling on my ear. <BR/><BR/>Kinsey and other researches (i.e. Freud) have shown that sexuality can be fluid across one's life. That a large share of American males have had some type of homosex particularly during their youth (not to mention those in prisons or jails)does not make one "gay".<BR/><BR/>On this point about not accepting homosexuals or homosexuality, my feeling is, you don't have to accept homosexuality as your personal lifestyle, but you will respect me and afford me my human rights. If I'm not worried about your 3 & 4'somes, you don't worry about what I'm doing in bed with another consenting adult. But it seems to me if you accept group sex as a valid sexual choice, then you're on that slippery slop to accepting polygamy, homosexual marriage, man-animal marriage... the list goes on.<BR/><BR/>On a serious note, the one way to address the high HIV rate in the black community is to stop the hatred of homosexual and bisexual men, accepted people as they are...so they can be who they are without hiding. Poverty, lack of education, drug use, low self-esteem, condom fatigue, prostitution, incarceration, promiscuity, low marriage rates are all a part of the high HIV rate problems as well. <BR/><BR/>As far as metrosexuals are concerned, my understanding is that they are heterosexual males that have a gay sensibility in terms of style and other interests (i.e. likes shopping, not into sports, got an eye for decorating and dressing, keeps in shape, not afraid to use lotion, or get pedicures or manicures, etc....). Of course this stereotypes gay and straigth men.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1169751398440737152007-01-25T10:56:00.000-08:002007-01-25T10:56:00.000-08:00"I am tired of people claiming that those who abho..."I am tired of people claiming that those who abhore homosexuality are somehow 'not secure' in their own sexuality. That is like saying that someone who is against child molestation may harbor desires for little girls (or boys) in the back of their minds."<BR/><BR/>First, lets get past the fact that you clumsily tried to connect what two consenting adults(of the same gender that is) do in the comfort of their own home, to adults sexually taking advantage of children by means of rape. That sillyness aside, there is nothing wrong with being against homosexuality, that's your thing. But I always have felt that people who go out of their way to spew slurs and whatnot, secretly crave a ruler sized penis knocking against their prostate.<BR/> <BR/>"2. By the definition of the term bi-sexual, men and women can be bi-sexual."<BR/><BR/>I'd really like to know what dictionary you're using. For future reference, I wouldn't trust anything written in crayon from now on. That being said, you totally missed the whole point of that rant, I see that being potty trained at gunpoint has completely ruined your sense of humor.. Just kidding..<BR/><BR/>"in my opinion, this bi-sexuality is what is causing this aids epidemic amongst black women."<BR/><BR/>Factually you are incorrect, statistically it says that black women who are infected by "down low" brothers is about 5%. Now, a real issuse is what percentage is infected by I.V drug users..The Humanity Critichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17952770577150500798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1169750291243734272007-01-25T10:38:00.000-08:002007-01-25T10:38:00.000-08:002 comments:1. I am tired of people claiming that t...2 comments:<BR/>1. I am tired of people claiming that those who abhore homosexuality are somehow 'not secure' in their own sexuality. That is like saying that someone who is against child molestation may harbor desires for little girls (or boys) in the back of their minds. It is absolutely illogical to profer such an arguement. I do not and will not accept homosexuals -- and it is not because i 'am afraid' that i may have 'secret' desires for another man; it is because homosexuality, is an illogical perversion.<BR/>2. By the definition of the term bi-sexual, men and women can be bi-sexual. I have had two women at once (i.e both naked, in the same room, having sex with me) -- yet the two women (on one occasion it was 3 women) were not lesbian (i.e. were not 'doing' each other). A bi-sexual man or woman has sex with both sexes...in my opinion, this bi-sexuality is what is causing this aids epidemic amongst black women. Personally, even though i do not like gay people and do not accept them; i would have more respect for a gay man who was not on the dl, this person does not pose a danger to others. <BR/>On another point... where do these 'metro-sexuals' fall? are they gay, bi-sexual, confused, what?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1169657645777969782007-01-24T08:54:00.000-08:002007-01-24T08:54:00.000-08:00Men can be bi-sexual. I'm a black gay man, and I u...Men can be bi-sexual. I'm a black gay man, and I use to think that way until I started meeting a lot of 'hood'/'street'/'thug' type men on the hustle tip. Most of these men are on the "DL" in terms of their girlfriends', babies' mama or families' because of the stigma attached to male homosexuality.<BR/> <BR/>Most will describe themselves as bi-sexual, not because they're trying to run away from or cover up their homosexuality, but because they're truely attracted to both sexes to various degrees on the Kinsey Scale. <BR/><BR/>In my experience, most of the brothas that are truely 'gay' or homosexual and in that 'bi-sexual', bi-curious or confused phase will sort themselves out from true bi-sexual men in short order.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1169597467835985342007-01-23T16:11:00.000-08:002007-01-23T16:11:00.000-08:00that is so true LMAOthat is so true LMAOboohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14926278850971659292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1169433613736407822007-01-21T18:40:00.000-08:002007-01-21T18:40:00.000-08:00I've been screaming this for years! Men can't be ...I've been screaming this for years! Men can't be bi-sexual and they can't claim they were experimenting!Jaesorealhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11594538802499948949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1169336444663004392007-01-20T15:40:00.000-08:002007-01-20T15:40:00.000-08:00truthfully, most gay men i've met agree with your ...truthfully, most gay men i've met agree with your assertion. as a very straight woman, not only do i agree with you, but i also feel that there is no such thing as a truly bisexual woman. i think that many woman have had homosexual experiences because it is socially acceptable and even encouraged for women (especially young, attractive ones) to "explore" their sexuality. <BR/><BR/>it's a man's world, so of course some women are going to do what a majority of men want them to do (i.e. drunkenly make out with a chick at a club or party). then there are people who are just not all that picky about who they choose to sleep with. more power to them, but i'll stick to dick. i'm sure some will disagree with me on this. that's fine... i for one, don't feel that it makes me any less interesting or sexy that i've never had the desire to make out with a woman. if it ain't broke....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9807422.post-1169250959127883082007-01-19T15:55:00.000-08:002007-01-19T15:55:00.000-08:00"You can hang your head at my vagina any time" *Al..."You can hang your head at my vagina any time" *Ala Mae West*<BR/>Ok, so if a man plays any "position" in "baseball" hes gay, but what about women? You say you dont have a problem with girl on girl action, but can a woman be bi or is she also gay?<BR/>LLola Getshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07058543308191117858noreply@blogger.com